You said you Would...
Posted on December 15 2014
TGIT... Thank God It's Today
Volume #369 / December 15th, 2014
By: Barry Gottlieb- Author, Speaker and Trusted Advisor Are you guilty... Of saying you will do something... and then don't? I don't know about you, but I am amazed at how many times people say they are going to do something and then never do it. Somewhere along the way, we seem to have lost a very valuable lesson we were taught while we were growing up.
Have you read the book, The Four Agreements, by Don Miguel Ruiz?
If you haven't read it yet, I highly recommend it. If you have read it, I recommend you read it again. The author shares four very simple, yet practical agreements that if followed on a consistent basis, will have a massive and positive impact on your life... forever.
The first of The Four Agreements is: "Be impeccable with your word. Speak with integrity. Say only what you mean. Avoid using the word to speak against yourself or to gossip about others. Use the power of your word in the direction of truth and love."
This is the focus of our newsletter today... Keeping your word and your agreements.
There was a time when a person's word was his or her bond. But today, it seems that agreements are given too often without real commitment to honoring the agreement.
Take a good look at yourself. Are you a person of integrity? Do you honor your word?
When you do not live up to your word and your agreements, you will over time lose the trust, credibility and faith of others. And when done repeatedly, it diminishes your character, you as a Person; and your integrity suffers. Every Agreement You Make Is With Yourself... Thoughts and action steps... When you realize how important your integrity is, you will think twice before you tell someone you are going to do something, or make agreements that you do not intend to keep.
Those casual agreements to which you agree, like meeting somebody after work, picking something up for a friend or calling someone later. These may seem like innocent agreements, but they are commitments! When you don't keep your word, you are saying more about who you are than you may realize.
When you keep your word, you speak volumes about the person you truly are. You earn the respect and trust of others.
Here are some action steps that may help you make and keep your agreements:
- Pause before you speak
- Be aware and mindful of the things you say you are going to do
- Do you really intend to follow up and make it happen?
- Write down your commitments; use a day planner or calendar
- If you can't keep an agreement, let the other person know immediately
- Learn to say "No" more often
- Remember, your actions do speak louder than your words
- Be a person of integrity
- Follow The Four Agreements:
- Be Impeccable With Your Word
- Don't Take Anything Personally
- Don't Make Assumptions
- Always Do Your Best
Remember... Every day is a gift, and the quality of your life is your gift to yourself.